A Mompreneur’s Chronicle Of Life With Her Boys

Kids, Eat Your Veggies!

We all want out kids to eat healthy, including a lot of fruits and veggies. But for most families kids and veggies just aren’t friends. But why?

Is it because kids don’t like the taste? I am sure that is true in a few cases, but not the majority.

Is it a texture thing? My sister has a texture issue with fruit, so I can understand this may be an issue for some.

Or are veggies too foreign to kids? I have a feeling that this is most likely the issue for most kids and parents.

Here are some tips that we use to get our boys to eat more vegetables, a strategy that has worked well over the years. Need proof? They eat Brussels sprouts.

Serve it to them.
Kids are going to eat what they know and see all the time. If they only get served carrots, most likely they aren’t going to come home from school and say “Mom can you make Brussels sprouts for dinner.” When they are given a variety of veggies they will be comfortable and probably find some that they really like. Sure, we all have our usual routine, but try adding a new one every once in a while.

Be the example.
If your children see you eating your veggies and enjoying them, they are more likely to try them too. At our house I only make one dinner and everyone gets a serving of each item. Of course some nights the boys aren’t happy about a selection, but when they see us eating them happily they tend to be more open.

Make it a routine.
Each day with lunch and dinner my boys know that there will be some veggies on their plate. In Jack’s lunch he gets them too and not just carrot sticks. Then they are used to having them with meals and aren’t surprised when it is served.

The two bite rule.
At our house we have the two bite rule. You must always try two bites of something or you don’t get your after meal treat. Sometimes this works better than others, but even the three year old will take his two bites of Brussels sprouts.

Don’t ask, don’t tell.
Last year I decided to swap kale for lettuce in salad. At first I started with Caeser salad, but then moved to all salads. I didn’t say a word, just served it like there was nothing different and you know what, the boys didn’t complain. Now Jack takes salads in his school lunch that use either kale or spinach as the base.

Get them involved.
Studies have shown that if kids are involved in preparing the food, picking it out and even growing it, they are more open to trying different kinds. I know it isn’t easy to find jobs for a three year old in the kitchen, but even just having them play there while you make dinner helps. My boys like to go to the produce section or the farmer’s market and see what looks great. Last summer they both ate our whole bag of fresh snap peas as we walked through the farmer’s market. They wouldn’t have looked at me sideways at home if I had said that was snack.

Summer is coming with lots of fresh veggies, so get out and enjoy.

 

This post is also available at my Girl Power Hour parenting blog, Mommy See.

Sarah

Photo Friday

Photo Friday – Garden Helpers

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Last weekend we had beautiful spring weather, so the boys and I worked on our flower beds. Will got tired of it quickly, but Jack dug all my big holes and wanted to weed the yard for money. If you live nearby and need your flower beds weeded Jack will do it.

and  then, she {snapped}

Sarah

Spring Break at the Beach

You are supposed to spend spring break at the beach, right? Ideally, you probably want to spend it somewhere a little more tropical than our destination, the Washington and Oregon coast, but a beach is still a beach. The water on our coast this time of year is just a tad colder.

After a minor repair in Portland where we bought our new trailer, we embarked on our inaugural trip in Boomer, our 2012 Keystone Outback 250rs travel trailer, to Cape Disappointment State Park on the southern Washington Coast. The Ford Expedition pulled the trailer well, even over some steep hills. The campground was beautiful and had everything to offer, including plenty of space and hook-ups. The beach was a short walk from our site and had black sand and lots of driftwood.

  

  

We spent part of a day exploring Astoria, Oregon, and Long Beach, Washington. In Astoria we went to the Columbia River Maritime Museum, where we discovered that Will loves model ships. He stopped and looked at each one as we walked through the exhibit. We are trying to figure out a way for a three year old to enjoy model ships in a non-destructive, but interactive way, since he clearly enjoys them. We had lunch at a great microbrewery, Fort George, and even bought a growler (just love that term) to take back to the trailer. Astoria is a really cute town that has retained its small and historic feel and we will definitely go back.

  

Long Beach is much more of your typical beach town. One highlight was driving the car on the beach. As we drove up to park for a walk on the beach, the car in front of us kept driving right onto the beach. After reading the sign that allowed cars on the beach during a small window during the year, Jim followed him. We were a bit afraid of getting stuck so we didn’t do anything crazy. Later in the day, the boys got to drive go carts, and we bought salt water taffy and ate clam chowder. Traffic must come to a halt in the summer months in this sleepy, one-road town.

One morning at the campground we heard a helicopter flying low and looked out to see a Coast Guard helicopter flying by. Later that morning during our short hike to the Cape Disappointment lighthouse, we happened upon some Coast Guard guys up on the cliff who explained that they were running training missions all day. We got to see them lower a man out of the helicopter and pick up what we hope was a dummy and then fly away. Not something you see every day.

  

The second leg of our trip took us into Oregon, with lunch in Cannon Beach and camping at Nehalem Bay State Park. Nehalem Bay was also a nice campground, but the sites were closer together so it probably feels crowded in the summer. The dunes there were gorgeous and made us feel like we were on the East coast. We decided to only spend one night there and continue on to our friend’s house in Newburg and pull an “Uncle Eddie” from Christmas vacation and park the trailer in front of our friend’s house. We almost staged a photo of Jim in his bathrobe with a beer while dumping the holding tank down the sewer but we refrained.

  

  

It was the perfect way to end our week long trip just hanging out with good friends. Boomer faired very well and we are getting used to all of his wonderful amenities. Probably the most telling thing from our trip is that we all can’t wait for the next one.

Sarah

The Will to Read

My boys love to read books. Since they were very small they have been picking up books on their own and reading them, flipping through favorites over and over again. Jack can now actually read the books himself, so at night when we read together we take turns reading pages for Will. Most of the time Jim and I divide and conquer – I take Will and Jim takes Jack – so Will doesn’t get restless as Jack improves his reading skills.

I keep books everywhere, because I feel it is so important that children are exposed to books and other reading materials every day. Each morning I read the paper (having your kids watch you read is an equally important component of teaching good reading skills). We have books in the car and Will requests one almost every day to read when we are out running errands. Jack even keeps a book in his school backpack to read on the bus.

 

It can be difficult to get boys interested in reading, but if you start young and find books that are relevant to them it is easier. I have found books about cars, dinosaurs, vehicles, and sports. Jack has become really interested in nonfiction, checking out books on space, sports, bigfoot, spies and cars from the elementary school library.

Here is a list of books that are some of our favorites, ones that Jack even still loves to read.

1. Duck for President by Doreen Cronin
Jack took this as his favorite book in Kindergarten. It is a great way to introduce the democratic process to children in a humorous way.

2. The Lorax by Dr. Seuss
After reading this to Jack years ago Jim remarked that he had no idea it was about deforestation. Even in 1971 Dr. Seuss understood what was happening.

3. The Scrambled States of America by Laurie Keller
A good introduction to geography, Kansas decides he is tired of being in the middle of the country and wants to see somewhere else. So all of the states decide to swap places, a very cute story.

4. The Little House by Virginia Lee Burton
This was one of my favorites as a kid. Even though it is a bit girly with the pink house the boys still like it.

5. The Little Red Train books by Benedict Blathwayt
We were given this book when Jack was little. The illustrations are beautiful and the stories about the little red train are well written.

6. Roadwork by Sally Sutton
For boys that love big machines this one is great. It explains the process of making a road, start to finish.

7. Little Blue Truck by Alice Schertle
We have two of these and both have good messages of friendship and helping others, with cute illustrations.

8. The Diggingest Dog by Al Perkins
This is one of Jim’s favorites that the boys have grown to love too.

9. Elmer by David McKee
I was given an Elmer stuffed animal before Jack was born and had no idea that there was a book about the patchwork elephant. It is a great introduction to colors and also understanding that being different is okay.

10. Amazing Machines books by Tony Mitton & Ant Parker
This series of a dozen or so books are smartly written and have great illustrations for young kids. They cover all different machines including boats, rockets and race cars.

I am linking up with Monday Listicles by Northwest Mommy today.

Sarah

Brewing Up Content

Content Brew CourseI am participating in Momcomm’s Content Brew workshop over the next ten days. Momcomm, run by Melissa Culbertson, is a great resource to help bloggers learn about social media, get writing tips and find blogging resources. She also posts blog critiques on Wednesdays, covering the design, functionality and content of people’s blogs. Watch for our critique in May!

Be sure to follow us, here, on Facebook and on Twitter to see what great content I create from Momcomm’s workshop.

Sarah

Photo Friday

Photo Friday – Go Carting in Long Beach

Last week on our spring break trip we came across a go cart place in Long Beach, WA. When Jim handed over tickets for himself and Jack the attendant asked if Will was going to ride too. Little did we know that he could ride with Jim. Boy did they all have fun.

and  then, she {snapped}

Sarah

April – Memories Captured

Last week was Jack’s spring break so we decided a trip to the beach was in order; it was spring break after all. Since our new trailer wasn’t equipped with a rudder and sails we went to the Washington and Oregon coast. The weather was beautiful for April in the Northwest, but it wasn’t exactly warm. Jack decided that he needed to help Mulligan play fetch in the waves. Even after Mulligan got tired Jack jumped through the chilly water. 

I put this together for the March Memories Captured hosted by Mama Wants This and These Little Waves.

 

Sarah

Got Milk? Not Me

I have been struggling again with my weight and my thyroid (wrote about it here). Even while I have been working with my doctor, I also thought that it might be good to try a naturopath. Our body systems are so interconnected that I am sure there are multiple things going on, plus she might be able to help me with some ongoing leg pain issues that I have had for years (for another post later).

After some blood tests for food sensitivities, she felt it would be good for me to try a no-dairy experiment. For two weeks I completely cut dairy out, including foods that contain dairy like pancake mix, bread and cereal. I was supposed to note how I felt. After two weeks I would be able to reintroduce dairy and see if it changes how I was feeling.

The two weeks were hard, very hard. The first week I was grouchy, because I had to find an alternative to my latte and I am having trouble embracing soy. We attended a dinner and auction where I couldn’t eat half the dinner; luckily Jim asked for a salad without dressing for me otherwise I would have eaten only a serving of beef all night. The second week was easier, but I wasn’t feeling any better AND the weight wasn’t coming off.

Finally it was time to reintroduce dairy and see what happens. I strategically waited until a time when I was home, just in case. Guess what, nothing happened. I had a latte after lunch, a string cheese for snack, a serving of lasagna at dinner and frozen yogurt for dessert (wasn’t following the diet that day). It was a fair test of dairy with a variety of items. I had no changes, no gas, discomfort or anything.

While these results are great and I can go back to eating dairy and not worrying, the question is still there, what is going on.

Sarah