Happy Birthday William

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Will turns four today. He is such a vibrant spunky little boy, you can’t help loving him. A few years ago I put this together using the letters of his name to provide inspiration describing him and the  words are still very relevant.

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- will power. Some might call this strong willed, but he is determined and it will prove to be a necessary skill in the future given his vision impairment.

 

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– individual. He has his own unique and distinct personality. Also, he can make the perfect frown face.

 

l– lovably cute. Most people want to eat him up and ask me how we discipline him when he is so darn cute. Will is a hugger. So when you meet him, he will probably give you a hub and a kiss.

 

l– lefty. He is left handed without question. He throws, swings a bat or club, eats, writes and even kicks as a true lefty.

 

i   – imagination. Just like his brother he can take his toys and play for hours by himself, making up stories and scenarios.

 

a – adventurous. Will just goes. He has no fear and will just walk right into the middle of anything — of a group of kids, a swarm of bees, a pool…

 

m – male. He is all boy. He loves his cars, Transformers, swords, Legos, trains and balls.

 

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s – style, as in his own. He has a distinctive run that made our friend Allison, who is a PT, say one day that she wanted to video tape Will running so she could show everyone what the range of “normal” is like.

 

t – taller, much taller than Jack. I feel bad for Jack because someday, not too many years from now his younger brother will be taller than him.

 

a – animated. He loves to dance and sing, especially in the car.

 

n – nutty. The other night while I was getting him ready for bed he said “I William! I crazy!” He is a complete ham and loves making all of us laugh.

 

t – tenacious. He doesn’t take “no” for an answer and is determined to get what he wants. See letter “W.”

 

o – outgoing. Ever since he could talk he would say “Hi” to people in the grocery store until they would acknowledge him. Today he even called out to multiple groups of people and everyone said “hi” back.

 

n – noisy. His voice has a way of carrying a long way, except when you need to find him. He also likes to hum or sing when you are on the phone.

 

 

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Mr. Roboto

For Jack’s Birthday party this year I came up with the idea of having the kids build robots. I like the idea of creative or active birthdays with a structured activity as it tends to keep the party moving along and helps prevent boredom.

Jim added to my idea by suggesting they build the robots out of PVC pipe and different connectors. The kids would be able to fit the pieces together easily and we wouldn’t need to glue them (they could later if they wanted them to be a bit more stable). After a research trip to Home Depot we settled on ½” PVC pipe and connectors, including crosses, t’s, angles and straight couplers.

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Jim then cut the PVC pipe into three lengths, 3”, 5” and 7” and we put together a sample to see how many pieces would be needed to make a reasonably sized robot. Each boy started out with at least those pieces and then could go get extra pieces as needed.

Once the robots were put together we had a whole table of decorations/embellishments that they could use including colored duct table, pipe cleaners, washers, card-board, sharpies, googly eyes and pompoms.

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We had nine boys total, including Jack and Will and three extra helpers (thanks Allison, Dana and Alan). Jim helped attach screws, Alan cut card board and duct tape, Dana made pipe cleaner bracelets, Allison took all the photos and I manned the hot glue gun. Everyone was very excited and so creative with their ideas. They each were so different; it was really fun to watch. Even Will worked on the sample, adding arms and decorating it.

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The boys were so into their projects that we had to push them out of the garage to go have robot cake (with raspberry filling that the boys thought looked like blood) and open presents. Allison was able to capture photos of everyone with their creation.

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A few of the boys commented how this was their favorite birthday and we received emails from several parents shortly after who were told by their kids that it was the best party they have attended. It made me feel so good that they were having fun and we did it for under $200. Pretty good I would say.

2012 Holiday Letter

In case you didn’t receive our holiday letter (or chose not to read it) here is your chance. Jim writes our letter and does a great job of adding humor to them. Enjoy

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There was no shortage of world events that could have served as Holiday letter inspiration this year. But the indelible memory for me is a song that transcended culture, language, age, class and style. Gangnam Style — a song performed in Korean, by a Korean named Psy — is the most requested song by my two boys, their friends, their friends’ parents and the rest of the world. Jack and Will love to sing along even though they don’t speak Korean. So sing along with us as we recap this year’s hits — it doesn’t matter if you don’t know the words. And be thankful you are getting the radio edit and not the extended remix.

Skyfall, Adele (encore: Sandstorm, Darude)

This year’s weather came in the form of snow and then a crippling ice storm that toppled trees and power lines – the perfect time for a visit from Charkiewiczs. While this storm was an inconvenience, it was also another reminder that we are lucky to have such benign weather relative to most of the country.

Drive By, Train

We said goodbye to Poppy, our tent trailer, earlier this year after two fun-filled camping seasons. The adieu was bittersweet as we traded up to a hard-sided travel trailer that will allow us to extend our camping season and take longer trips. We picked up Boomer, an Outback 250rs, in March and headed to the Washington and Oregon coasts over spring break to stress test it. Six trips later, Boomer passed the test. Next stop — a 15 day trek in 2013 to Oregon, Idaho, Utah, Colorado, Wyoming and one toe in New Mexico.

Broken-Left-Arm Style (Ow. Ow Ow Ow.), Jack

Over the summer, Jack earned the dubious honor of being the first in our family to break a bone. It’s not entirely clear exactly how he broke his left arm. I think he did it diving to rescue a bald eagle chick falling from its nest. However, Sarah and a few other “witnesses” claim he fell off a stair railing while sliding down. Agree to disagree. Two casts and a lost soccer season later, all is well (the first cast had to be removed and burned after Dennis signed it with the Univ. of Oregon logo).

Glad You Came, The Wanted

In June, Steve Gillis and I held our second annual fundraising event in memory of our beloved friend, David Fanning. Thanks to the generous support from this year’s 96 participants, 17 hole sponsors, countless donors and volunteers, The David J. Fanning Memorial Golf Tournament (fanningmemorial.com) donated over $28,000 to Seattle-based Benaroya Research Institute for diabetes and other autoimmune disease research.

Some Nights, Fun (honorable mentions: I Cry, Flo Rida; and Try, Pink)

The sum of the songs from Pink and Fun — Try + Some Nights — captures the entire season. Our beloved Dawgs came into this season with a proven QB, promising skill players and a new defensive coach who actually knows how to coach. After a schizophrenic 7-5 season, I have no idea what to expect. I hope they figure it out in time for the Las Vegas Bowl. Woof.

We Are (Not So) Young, Fun (Fun appears twice in our letter this year…well, because they are Fun)

Will started preschool this year and loves his teachers and classmates. His class hosted a pre-Thanksgiving dinner that we attended with Sarah’s parents and sister’s family while they were visiting recently. He is also enjoying his sports sampler class this fall, and he appears to be very capable on the soccer field. Jack is in the 2nd grade and has another wonderful teacher. Early signs point to strengths in math and science, just like his mom.

Don’t You Worry Child, Swedish House Mafia

“As nighttime creeps closer to suppertime and red and gold seep into green leaves” we know that it’s once again time to host the Haunted Maze at Jack’s Halloween school fundraiser. This year we moved it outside and add scarier elements and more walls. Our third and final year was a huge success and we are excited to participate next year as mere mortal volunteers and parents.

Stronger, Kelly Clarkson

In support of her business objective to expand her audience and build a reputation as a subject matter expert on GI and vision issues, Sarah is now writing as a contributor for three additional parenting Web sites. She attended the Bloggy Boot Camp conference in Chicago and came home with creative ideas on how to grow revenue and her sphere of influence.

Here’s to another 52 weeks of chart-topping memories. Happy Holidays, Gangnam Style – Ho. Ho Ho Ho.

Jim, Sarah, Jack, Will, Mulligan (WGD)

Oh the Lights

Last week while I was very sick in bed I was thinking about our family holiday traditions. With us heading out of town and me being sick, some things fell off the list like making gingerbread houses. There are other traditions that we would never miss, even if the holidays were only a week. Like our Christmas light tour.

This tradition started for me as a child. My family would go do some shopping at the big mall in the town next to ours, then have dinner at Marie Calendar’s and finally go see the lights. There were a few big houses that did amazing light displays. Even after Steff and I were in college we would still go have dinner and see the lights every year.

Jim and I have continued this tradition with our family and this year Jack started asking last week when we were going to go see the lights. There is a street in our town where each house decorates around a theme — the Polar Express, the Grinch, Peanuts and others. We also have found a house that does the lights synchronized to music (but not Gangnam Style).

Usually we go and have dinner at the same restaurant in town and then go do our light tour. One year we decided to try to find some more neighborhoods that were listed in the Seattle Times neighborhood light tour, but we always go back to our tried and true favorites.

We too invest a lot of time in decorating our house and hope that they are a part of someone’s holiday light tour as well. We know they were for one family who left us a note one year and a local newspaper snapped a photo that ended up on the front page.

2012 Christmas Lights

Splitting Time

Will & Mommy ChristmasNext week we head to California for the Christmas holiday. As is the case anytime we visit California, the holidays there will require time divided between Jim’s family and mine. Having both families less than two hours away is both a blessing and a curse.

I will admit that I recognize my family has been on the receiving end of our time more so than Jim’s. There are lots of reasons, but Jim and I decided this is how it would work.

After my sister and Paul had kids and bought a house, we now are torn between three locations. Christmas 2009 we dutifully spent 3-4 days in each location to make sure we covered them all and went home exhausted. That was not much of a vacation. We have since learned from that experience.

Splitting time is hard. How do you make the choice of where to spend the actual holiday? How many days do you spend in each spot? What factors do you use to make the choices?

This year we will be at Jim’s sister’s house before the holiday and then at my sister’s house for the actual holiday. We used to stay at my parents’ house but now that we are a family of four, there is simply not enough room. We feel bad about that, but we have to make the correct choices for ourselves and our family.

It hasn’t been easy for me to change the tradition of waking up Christmas morning at my parents’ house — the house I grew up in. It was at one time very important to me to wake up there. Now I feel that it is more important that all the cousins are together to open stockings and Santa gifts. The tradition for me was always about the joy of a child at Christmas, and the current traditions of my family should reflect that. So now we will spend Christmas Eve at my parents’ house and then return to my sister’s house to sleep and have Christmas morning. I look forward to incorporating that as a part of our new tradition. I will think of a fun activity that will make that day memorable for the boys so they will start to look forward to that part at Yaya and Papa’s.

Making changes to family traditions is not easy. But if it is done with thought, logic and care perhaps the new traditions will end up even better than the old. Doing something just because it has always been done a certain isn’t worth doing if it comes at the expense of the experience.

I am looking forward to a stress-less and fun-filled holiday with both sides of the family. One that includes good food, great wine and lots of laughs.

Holiday Traditions – Vests

If your family is like mine, you have holiday traditions that were passed down from previous generations and there are others that you have created on your own.

In 2008 I started making Jack a Christmas vest from fun holiday fabric. My sister has joined in now and we make vests for all four of our boys. We have threatened to make them for our husbands, Jim and Paul too and one of these years I swear we will.

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Steff and I have perfected the process and pattern, so they are pretty simple to put together. We have used McCall’s pattern 8337. Over the years we have modified the pattern to make them reversible which makes them even more fun. Each year we try to find fabric with different patterns, that way they don’t look the same. Jack even helped pick out the fabric this year.

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I know there will come a time when they will not like them, but until then it is one of my favorite traditions.

Having a Simple Holiday

I don’t know about all of you, but I am starting to get in the holiday spirit. With Thanksgiving so early this year it was throwing me off, but now I realize that means we have an extra week between Thanksgiving and Christmas this year.

My family is coming up to Seattle for Thanksgiving, which means we are headed to California for Christmas time. Having the extra week between the holidays will help us feel like we aren’t missing out on our favorite Christmas stuff in Seattle. Traveling over the holiday also requires me to be that much more organized for Christmas. So my theme for the holidays this year is “Simple and Lovely.”

To help with the organization part of the holiday I am participating in Amy Volk’s (who I met at Bloggy Boot Camp Chicago) “6 Weeks to a Simple Holiday.” This is week 1 so don’t worry, you aren’t behind if you want to participate too. I am hopeful that it will help me be even more organized and have less stress this holiday season.

Each year I like to create a craft or two for the holidays. Some years it is simple like paper snowflakes. Other years it is more work, like a hanging advent calendar. To keep with my Simple and Lovely theme I am going to create a holiday banner. It doesn’t take long to complete and has a great impact. Below are the instructions.

“Believe” Triangle Banner

Supplies – 12×12 scrapbook paper (the heavier the better) in various patterns, coordinating ribbon, glue, white paper, vellum or colored to print on, complementary colored paper, scissors and template

1. Print template and cut out along lines. There are three pages, a triangle designed for 8.5” x 14” paper, the letters and larger background oval

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2. Trace triangles on scrapbook paper and cut out. I use an exacto knife and ruler to get a straight edge.

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3. Fold over top 1” to form pocket for ribbon and trim extra paper on edges. If you have wider ribbon, make a bigger pocket.

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4. Trace large oval on complementary color paper and cut out. You could punch this or use decorative scissors.

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5. Glue letter oval to larger colored oval. If you are using vellum, be sure to use vellum glue.

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6. Place ribbon on back of triangle and glue 1” of paper down over ribbon creating a pocket. Cut the ribbon to the desired length.

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7. Attach letters to triangles.

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8. Hang and enjoy.

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Hope you are able to have a Simple and Lovely holiday season.

 

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Photo Friday – Happy Halloween

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This year Jack decided to be Jack Skellington from Nightmare before Christmas. When we were at Disneyland last year the boys loved the Haunted Mansion that was decorated like Nightmare. Will wanted to be a skeleton again this year. I went easy and bought the suit, but painted it with glow in the dark paint to make it brighter at night. The boys had fun trick or treating around the neighborhood with a big group of kids.

Pumpkin Patch 2012

Over the weekend we were able to squeeze in a pumpkin patch trip and actually missed the rain drops. Since a picture is worth a thousand words, I figured I would let our photos of the trip speak for themselves.

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Camping By The Numbers

As a way to round out our fabulous camping season I put together some numbers that encompass our experiences. We really enjoyed our inaugural year of camping with Boomer, the new trailer and can’t wait for next year. Planning has already begun for our first big two week trip.

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What was your favorite camping number or memory from this year?