A Mompreneur’s Chronicle Of Life With Her Boys

Halloween Marathon

For us Halloween is a marathon, not a sprint. That isn’t to say it is bad; it is just long, stretching over days or weeks if you count all the preparation.

It all starts months in advance when the boys decide what they want to be for Halloween. I have a sickness that prevents me from buying pre-made costumes (I know, but at least I acknowledge it.) This year Jack decided he wanted to be Sam Flynn, the main character in the movie, Tron Legacy. Since Will doesn’t have an opinion yet, the plan was for him to be either the character, Tron, or Rinzler. I was going to try to make Jim and I costumes too, but that idea got thrown out due to lack of time.

Jack’s costume came together well and I even found some glow in the dark Frisbees that look like the disks. However, Will’s was just too plain. After I saw it together on Friday I knew he needed something different.

Last Friday (like last year) we chaired the haunted maze for the Halloween Bash at Jack’s elementary school. Since we did so much of the building work last year it made sense to take it on again. We were able to add more black lights and decorations to fill the space of the maze better, including a second coffin, jail, mummy man and zombie. We were able to get some photos from inside the maze this year, thanks Jerry Ann from Deddo Arts.

 

   

See more photos of the maze

Since we build the maze in the gym, we have to build and decorate it on the morning of the event, then take it down that night. Luckily we had amazing crews of people throughout the day to help us, including Alan and Dennis who were there all day (they were rewarded with beers afterward.)

The Halloween Bash followed a walk-a-thon. Unfortunately the weather gods were not smiling on us and it poured rain, prematurely ending that part as people headed inside to get out of the garden hose that was coming out of the sky. I think everyone still had fun at the 2nd annual Halloween Bash.

Saturday morning I decided to make Will a skeleton (“skelskin” as Will says) costume. Yes, two days before Halloween. It actually came together well and he was happy with it.

Sunday night we carved our eight pumpkins with Allison, Dennis and their kids; well technically Dennis, Jim and I carved pumpkins while Allison cooked and the kids played. Next year Jack is going to help with his pumpkin. It is a memory I want him to have like I do.

 

Then Monday arrives… Halloween on a weeknight is hard. It feels like such a race to get through everything, get the kids in bed at a reasonable time and remember to enjoy the night. The teachers were great and didn’t give homework. We trick or treated through the neighborhood in a group of 11 kids and eight adults with cocktails. The bigger kids quickly moved from house to house, while Will took his time. He just moves to his own beat and does what he wants. By the end of the night he would just ring the doorbell and say “I get candy now,” instead of trick or treat. We will work on his manners.

 

We survived our Halloween marathon and may even sign up to do it all again next year. As Jim likes to say, “we are on a year-to-year contract renewal and next year we qualify for free agency.”

My 10 Favorite Carved Pumpkins

I scoured my photo archives and the deep dark recesses of my brain to find my favorite ten of our carved pumpkins. I love carving pumpkins. We actually had eight (yes eight) to carve this year. I did five of them. As a kid we used to have pumpkin carving parties and some of my parents friends would come over. I always remember how creative everyone was, especially Bob Bishofberger.

Without further ado here are my favorites.

10. Lattice – 2008

 

9. Happy Face – 2005

 

8. Spider – 2007

 

7. Skeleton – 2011

 

6. Thomas – 2007

 

5. Robot – 2009

 

4. Mater – 2011

 

3. Autobot – 2010

 

2. Husky – 2009

 

1. Haunted House – 2010

 

I am linking up with Monday Listicles at Northwest Mommy for the Halloween lists.

We Checked Off Summer Fun

Early in the summer we created a list of all the fun things we wanted to do over the summer, made a poster, and checked them off as we completed them. I was hoping that it would help keep things top of mind while providing a fun activity as we decorated the poster with stickers. Most importantly, it was a good reminder to celebrate what is truly important – family and the time we spend together.

Here are some of the fun summer activities we completed:

1. Go camping – We went four times, including a trip to Dosewallips with five other families.

2. Swim in the lake – We got to swim in both Lake Sammamish at my aunt and uncle’s lake house and Pine Lake with some good friends.

3. Go to SeaFair – Auntie Steffi, Unkie Paul and Oliver joined us at SeaFair this year and we got to watch the Blue Angels and the hydroplane boat races from the shoreline.

4. Make tie dye shirts – The family has a matching set of tie dyes. I am sure this is only the first of many tie dye projects.

5. Find a new ice cream spot – While in California we went to a new ice cream spot near Auntie, Unkie and Oliver’s house.

6. See fish throwing at Pike Place Market – After selecting our fish, Jack was so excited to see it get thrown back over the fish counter to be wrapped up.

7. Make garden art – Our painted rocks for the garden were not only fun, but were also featured in FamilyFun Magazine.

8. Pick berries – The boys and I got to pick blackberries near our house and came home with some war wounds to prove it.

9. Play golf – There was backyard golf, as well as golf on the course. Jim and I even got to go play a couple of rounds on our own – a rarity.

10. Paint a project – Jim and the boys made a pirate flag for the play fort and Jim is currenly working with Jack on a complete room makeover. They are making Jack and Optimus Prime bed and his room has been repainted to match the new colors.

Summer was fun, but we are ready for fall. Fall means Husky football, Friday night soccer and prep for Halloween. What will the costumes be this year? You will just have to wait and see.

I am linking up with Monday Listicles at NorthWestMommy.

 

A Seattle Summer Tradition

Yesterday we took the boys to their first full Seafair experience (Auntie, Unkie and Oliver came with us too.) We have been going to watch the Blue Angels on the I-90 floating bridge for many years. If you haven’t seen them from this vantage point it is a must. The best spot is on the west high rise.

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Jim has wanted to take Jack to the boat races for the last few years, but we haven’t been able to make it work. So this year we made a point of blocking that weekend on the calendar and the Charkis decided to come visit and join us.

We bravely decided to take the two little boys and an eight months pregnant Steff as well. We found a spot on the shore north of the pits with a good view of the race course and the air show. Jim, Paul and Jack got pit passes so they could see the boats up close. They did take the little boys in for a short time. Steff and I relished the time to sit on the shore and enjoy the day with about 300,000 other people. It was as much fun to watch all the people as it was to watch the racing.

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The boys liked watching the hydros and the airplanes, although Oliver was worried about the stunt pilots landing in the water. It took some reassuring and watching for a while and then he liked it. Even Will was able to follow the planes in the sky and boats on the water. They lasted through the Blue Angel show which was about an hour into naptime. Since there was a break in the racing action for a while we decided to pack up and start the trek home.

While Jim, Jack and Paul made one more trip to the pits, Steff and I walked the little boys in the strollers to see the rest of the sights and find some ice cream. Maybe five minutes later both boys were asleep; so they got their nap and we got our snack.

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We made it home in time to watch the final race on TV, including a big hydro flip in the Lites group final. Unfortunately the boat Jack was rooting for came in last. It was a very fun day that we all will remember.

Have you been to Seafair or watched the Blue Angels? What is your favorite memory?

Photo credit for Paul – Thanks for taking most of the photos.

Through a Child’s Eyes

Happy Fourth of July! A few days ago Jack asked me when the Fourth of July was. Obviously my response was on July 4th. Then he asked if it was going to be on the fifth of July next year. It is interesting how their little minds work.

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Sparklers in Crocs probably weren’t the best idea.

We spent the Fourth at my sister’s house in West Sacramento, where it was really hot. After spending most of the day inside, some of their friends came over for a BBQ. With seven kids ages six and under, two small wading pools provided the perfect way to cool off and have some fun. It is amazing how kids can take simple things, add a little imagination and play for hours.

After dinner, even darkness was still hours away, Paul lit off some fireworks ( the safe and sane kind). The kids were all mesmerized. They were the kind that shoot some sparks out a few feet in the air and make some noise. Will didn’t blink the entire time and when they started to pop he did a happy dance jumping up and down. The rest of the night he kept asking Unkie Paul for more “fireicks.” We were surprised how well the fireworks showed up with it being so bright out still.

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Notice the sequence, first we are not sure what to do. Then excitement and the fireick dance.

Watching Will’s face fill with wonder as he saw this amazing sight for the first time warmed my heart. There are certain things that turn us all into kids again and we just can’t get enough. I think fireworks are like that for a lot of people. For Jim it is the Blue Angels. They come to Seattle every year and he is like a kid in a candy store; it is like the first time he has ever seen them.

What is the thing that turns you into a kid again, no matter how many times you do it?

My Mom Book

In the May issue of Real Simple magazine, there was a great article about the Mom Book. The book has been made by her kids over time. A couple times through the year they make a new “entry” in it and give it to her as a gift, like at Mother’s Day, Christmas and her birthday. Some of the entries are written, some have hand drawn pictures or hand prints, but each captures the child at that moment in time.

I thought this was a great idea; a good way to capture memories as they grow. I gave Jim the article and he organized the first entries into my Mom Book. (I still need to get the book, but I have the first pages for it.)

Jack has started writing notes, spelling phonetically (this is for another post), but it is so cute what he decides to say. In class they have been writing a sentence, then drawing a picture about it, so he has had practice doing this. For his stuff he drew a picture of us camping and another one of us working on the patio.

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Will’s skills aren’t quite as advanced, so we are lucky that he didn’t eat the pen. His next entries I am sure will start to show his artistic talents.

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I love my new book and can’t wait for the next entries.

Raindrops on my Easter bonnet

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Another rainy Easter? Are you kidding me, I figured with Easter being so late this year we might luck out. No way. It has been four Easters in a row that it has rained and not just a light shower, but full on rain. Saturday was gorgeous, sunny and close to 70 degrees. Then Easter Sunday is rainy and 50s, seriously.

Yes FOUR Easters in a row the egg hunt has been in the rain (and all four we have gone to our friends house, maybe we need to change our plans… Just kidding Sarah!) So we have gotten used to Easter outfits with rubber boots and rain coats.

Jack came walking into our room in the morning and said “The bunny didn’t hide the eggs in the front. Are they in the back? No!” He was clearly bothered until he walked down stairs and saw that the Easter bunny decided to hide the eggs inside our house anticipating rain. (Smart bunny!) The bunny also knew just want the boys wanted. Jack got the Angry bird toy he had really been wanting and Will got a Lego tractor and a few other things to fill their baskets.

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Finding Easter Baskets

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Egg hunt at home

This year we had not 1 but 2 Easter parties we had been invited to. First, we headed to the Edwards for their annual egg hunt and lunch. It was a great party as usual complete with a huge egg hunt for the kids, a golden egg hunt for the adults and hooch punch.  Jim got his ham and Jell-O egg fix before we needed to head out for nap time.

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Edwards Egg Hunt

Last year Will had just started walking so he needed lots of help hunting eggs. This year he started to get the hang of getting the eggs. He needed a little direction focusing on the task at hand. I think he was distracted by the number of eggs and kids around. Next year watch out.

Jim and Jack then headed to party #2 while Will took a short nap. Our neighbors the Yocums included us in their gathering this year. Jack arrived just in time to participate in the egg hunt (his third of the day.) Will and I arrived after his nap to finish out the fun day with Dennis’s yummy champagne drinks. At one point the girls were around the dining room table chatting and the guys were watching hockey in the family room, nothing says Easter like pucks and ice.

Well I can hope that next year we will finally buck the trend and have a non rainy Easter. I am not asking for sun, just no rain.

A Mod Podge Valentine

boysAbout ten days I got an email from Jack’s teacher asking for help with the class Valentine’s Day party, because she was going to out of town at a funeral. Of course I would do the party. After an early morning meeting to get some ideas from her we were on our own. One of the other moms was helping as much as she could, but she had her older son’s party too.

A couple trips to Michael’s and some bus stop conversations later I had a plan. We were going to have 5 stations for activities/crafts and a game or reading station. Lots of cutting, gluing and copying later samples were made and the supplies were ready for 22 Kindergartners.

box makingOur homework project was to make Jack’s Valentine box. I sent Jim and Jack to Michaels (we should really buy stock in the store) for supplies. They came home with a cardboard box, tissue paper, mod podge and stickers. If you haven’t used mod podge for a craft project you really should, it is basically making paper-mache. We used it to decorate the box with the tissue paper. Jack was funny when we were working. He hates to get his hands dirty, so he kept picking it off his fingers.

heartsOf course I decided that getting all the stuff ready for the party and making Jack’s Valentine box wasn’t enough, I needed to add another craft to our plate. We decorated wooden hearts with red, magenta and pink tissue paper using mod podge for the grandparents and aunts and uncles. Jack’s favorite jack lionwas painting the mod podge on the hearts, because he didn’t have to get his hands dirty. Will wanted to get in on the act, but there was no way I was going to take that on, so he sat in his high chair with books. I had rediscovered my love of mod podge, just wait for more mod podge projects in the future. (How many times can I say mod podge in one paragraph or post.)

fuzziesFast forward to today. The room is all set-up for the projects, cookie decorating, card making, heart lions, valentine fuzzies, paper woven hearts. The kids had fun and made it through all the projects well. I think the favorite projects were the cookies and the valentine fuzzies. The fuzzies are pom poms glued to a heart lionfor feet with eyes and antennae. The heart lions are made of different sized hearts and googly eyes. For the paper woven hearts, the kids cut out the pattern in two different colors and wove them into a basket weave pattern. It was rewarding to see them all happily completing their projects.

will handWill didn’t miss out on all the Valentine’s Day fun. At Kindermusik today he got a heart stamp on his hand. I decided that it would be fun to treat the boys to the heart shaped pizza from Papa Murphy’s for dinner, since anytime Will hears the oven timer he comes running in saying pizza.

jack heartHope you all had a Happy Valentine’s Day and all my packages arrived on time. I know Auntie Jean got hers. (Thanks for the call.) I got to spend mine with my 3 Valentine’s.

Photo Friday

Photo Friday – 2010 Holiday Lights

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In honor of going to view Christmas lights tonight, I thought Photo Friday should be our Holiday lights. We revised them this year, because the hedge is now gone and we have the creekbed and new patio. With our dedicated circuit for the lights we will be able to add even more next year.

Gingerbread Houses and Marshmallow Menorahs

altTuesday was the Holiday celebration in Jack’s class at school. His teacher had 7 craft/activity stations all set up. They have been learning about all the winter holidays, Christmas, Hanukah, Kwanza and any other holiday that someone celebrates this time of year. His teacher has invited anyone to come in a speak about their holiday celebration. If the kids were a little older Jim might go and teach them about Festivus.

The craft/activity stations were gingerbread houses, painting paper candy canes, paper bag Santas, sewing stockings, reindeer ornaments, snowman ornaments, marshmallow menorahs and playing dreidel.  She was amazing with such cute ideas.

altYou guessed it the most popular station was the gingerbread houses that all the parents contributed every kind of candy possible to decorate them with. You could smell the sugar from down the hall, it made my stomach turn just sitting there. The houses made the day before from graham crackers and frosting formed over milk cartons. They were so cute and creative, some with garages and most with chimneys. Jack put strings of lights (licorice), gutters (chocolate chips), pathway (gum drops), front door (shredded wheat) and people (gummy bears).

altHe made a marshmallow menorah, that was pasted together with frosting and used raisins as the wicks. Then he made the paper bag Santa with a cotton ball beard. He also completed the reindeer ornament that used dark and light brown painted puzzle pieces glued onto painted tongue depressors. The snowman ornament was popsicle sticks glued together and painted to look like the face and hat. I don’t have photos of those because they were still drying at school.

It was a really fun couple of hours and Jack was so happy to have me there. He wore his Christmas vest and proudly told the whole class that his Mom and Auntie made it for him. So sweet.

The children have been talking about a tradition that their family celebrates. They fill out a sheet about it and should bring a photo or item that illustrates the tradition. Jack decided to talk about how we put the train under our Christmas tree. We worked on his sheet and even called Grandfather to find out how old the trains were. Jim let him take one of the trains to school to show. He was so excited to share.

We have reached the age that Jack is really understanding the holidays and wants to learn more. I just love it.