If You Give a Mom…

This post is based on the children’s book If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff and is one of Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop prompts this week. Children’s books can tell great life lessons and can still be relevant for adults.

 

If you give a Mom a lawn chair, then she is going to want a drink.

When she goes inside to make a drink (which may or may not be a cocktail), one of her kids will ask her for a snack.

Looking through the cabinet for snacks will remind her that they are supposed to bring snack to the soccer game in the morning.

So she will look for her phone to text her husband to buy snacks on the way home. While she is texting her husband she notices a missing library book under a bunch of papers.

She goes to put the library book in her son’s backpack only to find shoes and jackets on the floor.

Once she puts them away she notices dirt on the floor.

While she is cleaning up the dirt, the phone rings. It is her husband asking what kind of snacks to buy.

During their conversation she realizes that she is thirsty.

As she goes to make her drink she remembers that they are out of ice because the ice maker isn’t working.

When she picks up the phone to call her neighbor to borrow ice, she realizes that she is supposed to be sitting in the sun in a lawn chair with that neighbor.

 

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Loving Motherhood

It is so easy to complain about being a mother; not enough sleep, whiny kids and no time to yourself. But today I am not going to do that. Inspired by Mama Kat’s Writers Workshop this week, here are the things that make me love being a mother.

  • Snuggle time – The time right after my kids wake up from either the night or nap and are warm and snuggly. It just melts my heart to hold them until they wake up and wiggle away.
  • Comfort me – When my child looks at me with tears in their eyes with a look that says you are the only one in the world that can make their hurt go away.
  • Look of wonder – I love to watch their faces when they see something new for the first time; that look of wonder at the unknown and then the joy of the discovery.
  • I understand – There is something amazing about watching my children connect the dots in their mind and figure something out. I can see it in their eyes.
  • Reaching for a hand – Even Jack will still reach out to hold my hand as we are walking along. It reminds me that even though he is getting older he still needs me.
  • Look at what I found – I have been shown so many surprises. Worms, robots built from Legos, sticks or leaves. These are life’s real treasures.
  • Family movie night – We have so many things that pull us in different directions so we make it a point to have regular quiet family time. The boys love movie night, complete with special popcorn.

What are the things you love about being a parent?

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Posts of 2011

As a way of looking back at this year I went through my blog posts. It was fun to revisit some that I remembered and others I had forgotten about. Here are my favorites.

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Years of Santa

I was looking through the last several years of Santa photos. We have a frame that holds three years worth. It is really fun to see how the boys have changed.

Jack has grown up a lot in the last year, but still has the same cute smile. I am so glad we took the photo for this year when we did. Although you can see the bruise on his forehead, it hadn’t started to give him black eyes. Will has yet to smile in one. He gets closer each year, but no smile. I love the one of him as a baby with his huge cheeks and upside smile.

We don’t have any screaming Santa photos (don’t hate me), just very serious faces. We haven’t been consistent about going to the same place for photos, so we have had some really good Santas and some not as good. I like the ones from the last few years. Enjoy the last five years of Santa photos.

 

 

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My Favorite Thanksgiving

My favorite Thanksgiving memory has everything to do with the day and nothing to do with a good meal, however the meal was quite humorous.

I was ten years old and my parents had started a tradition of traveling over the Thanksgiving week. My father being a farmer (of grapes) couldn’t take vacations during the summer, so we would go on vacation after harvest in the fall. This particular year we went to Disneyland and it was my first visit to the magic kingdom. We went with two other families and pulled our trailer to the Disneyland RV park, which used to be on a prime piece of real estate next to the Disneyland hotel.

On Thanksgiving morning we walked across the street and into the park, going immediately to Pirates of the Caribbean. There were hardly any lines, so we got to do everything we wanted and then some. I remember riding the Jungle Cruise, Haunted Mansion and watching the Country Bear Jamboree. We wound up the day at Big Thunder Mountain Railroad where we closed down the park. Since there were no lines we would jump off the ride, run all the way around to the start and immediately get back on. We must have ridden it at least 10 times. Eventually we started to lose a few folks who would sit and watch us crazies from a bench. It was an amazing day of good wholesome family fun.

After closing down the park we decided to try to find dinner. Since we had sacrificed cooking the traditional Thanksgiving meal to have our fun we were happy going to a burger place we had found the day before. As luck would have it the place was closed; now a scramble ensued. Imagine how hard it is to find a place to eat dinner with ten people who are hungry and tired and who don’t know the area and who didn’t have access to the internet and smart phones.

Eventually we ended up at a place called Tiffy’s (which surprisingly is still around) across the street from the park. Our first clue should have been that they could actually seat us. The turkey on the “turkey” dinner plate was pressed turkey. The mashed potatoes were cold and the gravy was nasty (this is probably where my love affair with Thanksgiving gravy began, because I now started to appreciate my Mom’s). The most appalling thing though was the corn dog that one of the kids ordered– it was blazing hot on the outside and frozen in the middle. I actually read a few of the reviews of Tiffy’s on yelp and it looks like the food and service hasn’t gotten much better in 25+ years.

Needless to say we all had a good laugh about the meal and it brought a great day to a comedic end. When any of us talk about Thanksgiving trips, that day always comes up.

 

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